How would be the Parent-Child relationship as per the birth chart?

There can be bad fathers, but not bad mothers. This very famous adage was, at first, stated by Shree Shankaracharya. Our day-to-day experience with our parents boils down to the same conclusion. However, we see many instances where the mother-child father-child relationship is estranged.  Investigating at a deeper level, we can understand that the answer lies within astrology.  Yogas in the natal charts of both parents and the child determine the root cause of strained familial relationships.  The same strain of maladjustment runs in many families where parents and children cannot see eye to eye on any issue. Acting on the problem at the right time and applying the right solutions can ease the tensions to a large extent. Kids horoscopes can have the right clues about parents and their personalities and their relationships with kids, one can easily fathom the parent-child relationship as per the birth chart by using the services of the right astrologer.  

Children's healthy growth depends primarily on the positive vibes that they share with their parents. By Investing a big chunk of their time, energy, patience, and love, sharing mutual warmth, care, and respect, the children grow up to be positive and successful. That is the need of the hour.

The correct combination between the lords of the first and the fifth House establishes an ideal equation of concord between parents and children. Parents can enjoy international travel due to these yogas in their children's charts The 5th, 7th or 9th house lords in auspicious combination also confer the same effect. On the contrary, the relationship will be strained by physical estrangement due to malefic planetary influence on these houses. The child may not exactly be a pillar of support to the parents in their advanced years, or the parent may be callous enough not to take care of his children if there is a negative influence on the second House. Emotional issues, specifically with the mother, are indicated, if there are afflictions to the 4th House in the child's horoscope.

The unfavorable combination between the 5th and 10th House can have its malefic effects. Sometimes, a parent may have a career on the top of his mind, leading to children's neglect.  His career ambitions may come in the way of the well-being of his child. Some undesirable combinations between the 9th and 10th House are to be blamed for this effect.

What is the impact of a child's horoscope on the mother?

Favorable aspect on the fourth House, fourth quarter and moon, builds a great camaraderie between child and the mother. The relationship would be very cordial as this native is very affectionate and respectful towards the mother.  If the fourth lord is in Kendra or trikona sthana from Lagna and conjunct with auspicious planets. The child would not only be very attached to the mother but hold her in high esteem. If the ascendant lord and the fourth lord enjoy a mutual friendship and good aspect from benefic planets, the mother draws immense respect from the child.  Auspicious aspect on the fourth House would assure blessing from the mother lifelong. When there is a combination between Mars and Guru in any form, the child would grow up to be a savior for the mother. The impact of a child's horoscope on the mother is manifold.

 How does Father-son compatibility astrology help in understanding the relationship?

Father-son compatibility astrology can be an art that can be very interesting. The combination between Sun and Saturn in any form shatters the father's happiness. Chronic health ailments, misunderstandings, and conflict characterize this relationship. Sun's position in the second House to the ascendant or the 12th House, with moon placed in 7th or 8th House, would mark the relationship with strife and struggle. If the Navamastha and Chaturthesh are placed in the House of the enemy, the native becomes rebellious and does not conform to the family traditions.  Fathers with the Saptamastha Guru have all the reasons to celebrate.  Their children will be the better versions of their parents in terms of virtues. Having the ascendant Lord and the sixth Lords in the 9th House, sun in the 9th or 12th House, and the ascendant lord in the 12th House, are inimical for the parent-child relationship.

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The Truth Behind Parent-Child Relationship Compatibility In The Words Of An Astrologer

 Children are the life and blood of a family’s structure! They are the driving force behind the parents giving their all to keep the unit running. Children are the hope for future and the mutual ties between the two generations are determined by the Parent-Child relationship compatibility, as per astrology. But before you go in that direction, you must understand that the nature of parent, co-parent and the child forms the core of this relationship dynamics. Children have their inherent nature, designed by their childhood environment, parental influence and their own personality traits, which are, in turn, determined by their astrological chart. Similarly, parents, who were children once, have inherited their own parents’, grandparents’ traits through genes or conditioning. So, sometimes, these behavioural patterns may collide and sometimes connect, depending upon what the parent and child relationship according to birth chart is.

\In today’s ever-changing parent-child dynamics, it is seen that children, more often than not, dictate the terms of relationship to the parents, who are considered more as friends in these modern times. There is a clear imbalance between the relationship between a parent and a child, which often leads to conflicts with dangerous consequences. As the number of old parents found living in old-age homes rises, it is, therefore, time to take a look at Parent-Child relationship compatibility and find out how to nurture this beautiful relationship so that children continue to be a source of joy and happiness for their parents, right into the old age.

Mother-Child Relationship

The mother and child relationship according to birth chart is dependent upon the auspicious effects of the 4^th house, 4^th quarter and moon. If such an arrangement is in place, the said child treats his mother with affection and respect. Astrologers speak of 5 Yogas which indicate a good relationship between mother and child. These are –

1)      A native feels respect and intimacy for the mother if the ‘Chaturthasht’ is placed in the centre or triangle of Lagna with Lagna, in the company of auspicious planets.

2)      The presence of auspicious effect in the 4^th house ensures that the child has the blessings of his mother.

3)      Any sort of relationship between Mars and Jupiter indicates that the mother-child relationship would be beneficial to both sides.

4)      In case of a visionary relationship between auspicious planets and Lagnesh-Chaturthesh, the child respects his mother.

Father-Child Relationship

Just like the mother and child relationship according to birth chart, relationship between a father and child is also subject to the various astrological combinations or Yogas in your birth-chart. Keep an eye out for the following arrangements in order to know what kind of relationship would exist between you and your progeny -  

1)      The shadow of Saturn on the Sun is detrimental to the happiness of father. In case there is a combination of Sun with Saturn, the child may be worried because of a conflicting relationship with the father, leading to long-term difference of opinion or it may also cause a serious illness to the father.

2)      There is an increased chance of having a difference of opinion with your father if the Sun is situated from Janam to the second, Dwadash, or Moon in the 7^th or 8^th house in your horoscope.

3)      A child is prone to oppose the parents and give up on the traditions of his family if in his horoscope, the Madhyesh, Navamastha and Chaturthesh are either inferior or dead.

4)      The child remains obedient & respectful to the father if in the latter’s horoscope, the father’s crescent is in the Sun triangle in the 5^th house.

Despite all the differences, conflict and arguments, a parent-child relationship remain sacred and pure. Ultimately, it is the personalities of parents and children that possess the key to a happy relationship. According to the Zodiac studies, there are certain parent-child Moon sign combinations that are more compatible than others. These zodiac signs complement each other and enjoy a fruitful relationship over the years. These are -

·         Gemini parent – Aries child

·         Taurus parent – Cancer child

·         Libra parent – Leo child

·         Capricorn parent – Virgo child

·         Taurus parent – Scorpio child

·         Aquarius parent – Sagittarius child

·         Cancer parent – Pisces child

Being a parent is a learning experience that teaches you new lessons every day. If you need a helping hand to help you navigate the complex gamut of relationship with your child, and know more about Parent-Child relationship compatibility, you can consult Dr. Vinay Bajrangi, India’s top astrologer, whose personal horoscope readings are known to allay all the doubts and fears related to your astrological birth-chart.